Hey all, I haven't starting ignoring everyone, the phone and internet were cut off earlier than expected. Will be back online around the 20th, from back at the real home. Only 5 more school days to go. So looking forward to this move. Until then , no updates from the wife or family. Have decided I will send them Christmas cards. No letter, email or text going to the wife upon my leaving, and that is definite. With no computer or internet, I have been doing a lot of reading, mostly about affairs and women's infidelity. Just puts things into place so much better. I am still going to continue to stand for my marriage, but my biggest issue is going to be around "tough love". Deciding whether to give the bills to the wife or not. Take care all.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
