I don't really see exchanging gifts as cake eating. Why do you? If I recall correctly, it was her idea, and I would just take it as a nice gesture. I would get her something that is personal (shows you know her) but not romantic or over the top, and definitely nothing for her new place!!
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
