Specific comments H made recently. Could be anything.
Specific behavior in the bedroom recently. Could be anything!
Don't forget that to be effective there has to be mention of the consequence of being naughty. It could be almost anything. You could say he has to take you somewhere, buy you something, or fulfill some desire of yours.
Of course there's always the time tested standby response to being naughty... a good old fashioned spanking!
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl