I'm taking in what is being said. I'm giving it and my reading thought and time.

I realize this is over and I need to move on, let go. I do want to be together again but it won't be on my time. Since she has done this before we were married I thought she may rethink and come back. I know things could be better than we had based on what I am doing for myself. She has to be willing and open too though.

We will talk today and see how it goes. I will stay calm and listen. Really listen.

If she tells my of the affair and that we are over I don't know what my responses should be.