Wonka and job....funny! I've never seen my H leave the lid up in all the years I've ever known him. And for guilty pleasures...he seems to enjoy them in the open, lol!
Glad you liked my idea, c!
I still am looking for some naughty behavior! He seems surprised and pleased by the "nice" notes!
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Last week the WSJ had an article on marriage compatibility and an online quiz of how happy you are in your M. I asked H to take it. He came out with an 8 on a scale of 1 - 10 and I came out with a 7. I explained with me there was a loss of trust with him and also an uncertainty that I was fulfilling his needs. He didn't defend or explain. He just understood.
I do think overall we are balanced and happy. This Christmas is far different from last. But looking back, I just took one day at a time, sometimes one moment at a time. And I can see its all part of the "journey".
His journey, my journey and our journey.
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway