She expects me to always answer, be available, call back. Not doing that is a 180. I've been doing that for a while. But when we need to talk, or she wants to talk, the phone tag is annoying, avoidance, and confusing. I'm sure the Times of NC bother her.
When we had the divorce talk she told me we needed to talk one evening in text. I replied right away, we planned on the next day, she texted often that day wanting to know a good time. Then we talked. Not what I expected or wanted to hear.
About a week ago the family friend kept saying show her you love her, that you believe in your marriage, and you will fight for it. And the not calling was looking like I didn't care. She said that several times.
