not as scared or confused. . still hopeful (II)

[juliegayle]

So in the light of day I see that I do need to continue DB for the sake of my sanity and attempting to regain a decent relationship with H for sake of kids. The mess last night spilled over this morning when I had to stop H from giving S the wrong medicine. He accused me of not keeping him informed (2 days ago I tried to give him all the info) I asked him what would be the best way to get him info re: s. He started huffing and I asked him to stop talking to me like that. He said he would be nice if I just left him alone. I asked him if we should revisit the option of him moving to basement which has a separate entrance. He said stop telling him what to do.

I see now that while I think I am listening to what he is saying and trying to proceed in a way that gives him what he wants He sees it as me being confrontational and controlling.

So do I just pick up where I left off with DBing and act like the last 24 hours never happened.?

I did call him after I left this morning just to tell him about a road block. He said thank you and we hung up.