Oh. One other thing. You are having good interactions with your W because you are not pressuring her. That is a sign that you should continue NOT pressuring her - not an invitation for you to bring up R talk.
Have you heard the analogy of feeding a squirrel? If the squirrel is showing signs of trusting you, don't scare it away!!
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
