I hope dinner and Christmas shopping goes well.
Keep up your PMA, no R talk, and "acting as if" your happy to see your H and H will be happy to see you and that you'll both enjoy the time spent.

me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope