1) Take D on vacation, leave W at home. 2) Start moving forward with a physical seperation. Get your finances in order, figure out where you or her are going to live and work out a custody schedule.
I know this is not what you want, but denying the reality of your situation will not change it.
You do not want to sit where you are for another 6 months. Heck, you shouldn't put up with this for another day. You need to move forward with your life.
Your tagline says that you filed for D. What is going on with that?
One final thought. Do not take relationship advice from a married woman who is out on a date with another man and has been stuck in an empty, unfulfilling marriage for 10 years. Is that where you want to be in 10 years?
