I concur, act "as if" he doesn't live there anymore. Don't wait for him for dinner, don't do laundry, set a budget, and still look awesome and smell great. It's going to be a bit...
If he leaves it's desertion, this way he can't be held accountable for his behavior. As for being his mom, with MLC it sets YOU up to be the one he is rebelling against.
Oh, and the lock is eeeeasy, when he's not home a locksmith can get you a key... it is your house too. BUT use it wisely, and brace yourself for whatever. If you need to know financials, and prepare yourself for needing evidence of fraud, etc. Even though I have hope ...I have quite the little cache for an attorney if need be. I subscribe to " Hope for the best, PREPARE for the worst.
Do you guys have paper checks? If so, use those instead of Debit and then " hide the hat " if you need some cash. Where I am you can write for 50.00 over. If not you can always purchase things you don't need, turn around and return them for cash back.
Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay
