Take each day as it comes and try not to look too far into the future because things will and do change. Focus on your schooling and the holidays that are coming up.
I'm sorry about electric situation yesterday. Your storm looked brutal and it's only early December! We are looking to be hit tomorrow.
As for him calling to see if you and the kids are okay...don't expect it. He knows that you will take care of everything.
You will be fine, but it's going to take some time. Own those sad, hurt and angry feelings and then let them go.
I'm glad you and the kids made out okay yesterday and thank goodness your electric is back on. Stay safe and warm.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.