I hope this Xmas is better than the last one too Ruby. I remember now what happened last year.

I hope indeed it is a better Xmas for us all. But like you said we will either way- because of who we are becoming now :-)

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home