3, haven't commented much on your thread but have been silently following along.
Sounds me to that you handled a very tough situation in a very positive manner. And consistent w/how you want things to be and the boundaries you have clearly set.
Stay strong!
Me-48,W-51 M-22,T-24 S- 18,16,9 Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork