I have read back through your thread, SM. Of course, none of us knows exactly what the "right thing" to do or say is. Unfortunately, nobody has the magic formula to save our marriages. But, I want to jump on board with some of the ladies here, and give you a good smack with a 2x4... You need to man up and set some boundaries! Your W's choice to openly cheat needs to have SOME consequences.
Just take a look at things more like this for a moment....
Originally Posted By: SM34
The truth is, WIFE should feel very cornered in her life. SHE needs HUSBANDS input with the bills right now if SHE wants to provide a decent life for HER daughter. WIFE needs help with D3 because she is somewhat out of control and has tantrums (Sensory Processing Disorder). Also, disrupting the life of D3 by having her go back and forth between two homes (not sure where Wife would go, and it doesn't matter because that is HER concern, HER choice) would be detrimental to her emotional well being in her current state.
