Is it important that I know her intentions with the D paperwork or should I just let that dog lie? I feel like I need to know something but I feel like she could still very well be wavering and could still change her mind back and forth.
Not important now, don’t bring it up.
Originally Posted By: dingo
How about the financial situation? Is that all that important to discuss now or is it likely to just add more tension?
Not important now, don’t bring it up.
Originally Posted By: dingo
I know I do not need to restate my position on the OM. The best I am hoping for from her at this point is some time apart (she and I- j won't try to control who else she spends time with) for us both to get some space and figure out what we want.
Not important now, don’t bring it up.
Originally Posted By: dingo
Do I just let her bring up things she wants to talk about?
YES!!!
Originally Posted By: dingo
Do I not entertain any R discussions?
If she brings them up, listen to her and thank her. I would not get involved with R talks, if possible right now, it more than likely won’t go well, right now.
[quote=dingo Typically I would be so anxious to know something that i would pressure her [/quote]
This was me, really bad. It is good you are aware of it and keep your distance.
Dingo, you have a great plan, keep it short and simple, show her kindness and listen to her, let her drive the talks. This is hard man, I know. You CAN do this!
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
