I've said to my dad that if it hasn't been sorted by the end of next week I'm going to assume that it's a no and I'll get in food for Christmas dinner for the three of us. He laughed and agreed. My sister's problem is her youngest is away at college and wants to see the GF as she is in a different college town, the daughter has a BF and his parents want time, plus her step-daughters both have kids and inlaws, and my other sister also has her BF's family to fit in. My house is the easiest as the only thing I have to consider is that Boxing Day is H's day with our son, and despite H wanting him to sleep over my son is insistent that he doesn't want to.
I'd rather stay home and not have to drive anywhere Christmas Day - I can sit and drink if I want and not have to worry about driving back home LOL . Plus it would mean S13 only having a little time with his presents before we'd have to head out so i'm pretty sure he'd rather stay home as well.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks