BG, I am impressed that your H still wants to go to Retro. I know it doesn't mean that everything is great or he is recommitting to the M, but I do think it means something. I hope that you both will get the most out of it, and it gets you on a better track.
Good luck!! (((BG))))
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14