She called as I posted the above reply. I didn't answer because I'm still organizing thoughts.
I knew she would call...
It feels wrong to avoid, NC, or delay this.
I know that OM won't be around too long. She won't really be happy with that. She knows that the position I am in with work and living situation that I probably won't be going anywhere soon. It's tough.
Before she left we were talking about our issues and what she needs to do, what I need to do, what we need to do, and it was loving, kissing, hugging, holding hands. That makes this harder. It was suppose to be just a break. Not asking for divorce a week after.
We both are stubborn. She makes decisions, right or wrong, and sticks to them, learns lessons too late. Her words. The ultimate goal is to save our marriage. How ever long, whatever it takes.
You can answer her calls.
But their is not going to be a magic button that is going to FIX your marriage.
It will take a very long time and lots of hard work.
