SHE MUST DO ALL THE HEAVY LIFTING! As long as her money is going into that joint account as well- YOU start buying gifts too.....SHE can open up the separate account
You will feel as everything is going in fast forward and that all you want is for things to slow down- just a bit.
Its a combination anxiety and shock. Therefore, identify some goals YOU would like to accomplish in the next 30 days for yourself- please list them here
She will do her thing- and you will take this time to better yourself for YOURSELF.......at some point her head may clear and there you will be - a different, and much improved man.
soooooo. whats her rush???
AND stop avoiding the question. It was fun - I call B$! If you needed to do all that to make it through the day..then perhaps separation is the right thing.
But its not the problem- Ill get off the subject but you need to start there on your path.
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13