RealityTrip is back from her voyage into "Me" Land

[needgrace]

She will only change when she really needs to change and that comes from within herself.

And perhaps she can change when she wants to be that person who is worthy of the love and respect of RT. The RT who isn't controlling her, or snooping on her but is allowing her the freedom to make her own decisions but who also has boundaries that protect her.

She may not be that person...there is only one way to find out.

I think the problem for most of us isn't trust, it's dealing with the consequences of broken trust, it's having strong boundaries. The what do I do if... If you know what you will do if, then you'll be OK, eventually.

I love this quote from David Richo: “The foundation of adult trust is not "You will never hurt me." It is "I trust myself with whatever you do.”

As I'm writing this, I'm looking out on the most amazing sunrise which I am just delighting in. No matter what goes on in our lives, some things are constant.

hi RT, wow bug is on fire in this post… love it.. need to tattoo it on my arm hope you are feeling better.