Spent so much time with W because we are still living together
I did it for over 2 years. It sucked big time.
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I am standing for my marriage and trying to protect my kids and our finances
Oh…I get it…especially the finance part. I personally, hid behind that for a long time. Kids – yep it [censored]…it really does. Sad as it is, they are truly the victims here. That said, you can in some ways (as best as one can) try to minimize the damage but at the end of the day – YOU buddy only have CONTROL over YOU. You can TRY and CONTROL her, the kids, the house, the finances….but just remember, life if fluid man. It flows… you can only control you and learn how to accept that things happen for a reason and sometime we do not understand the reason for a very long time.
As for “standing for your M” – I am not questioning that. It is not place to tell you to stand or not to stand. Not even my place to question it. But if you would not mind….I have a question for you.
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She has reminded me that she "does not love me" enough time
What does her “loving you look like”? AND what does “loving YOURSELF look like”?
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
