Why are you spending so much time with W? Are you trying to “show her things”…maybe subtle hints or actions that deep down inside you “hope she sees”. At the end of the day, I think Mach said it best but I will try to paraphrase….. “do you”…be YOU because YOU want to be…do things YOU want to do – not to secure a response from her.
Hey Mach – I’ll go back to my hole now
Spent so much time with W because we are still living together, still sharing the same bed, have 2 sons, and have to share in the responsibilities of the parenting. Last week was lots of time together because of the Holiday.
I am standing for my marriage and trying to protect my kids and our finances. I've stopped trying to share time with her at the house. She has reminded me that she "does not love me" enough times. She has seen things changing about me and spewed venom in my face about it. Others have stated to her that I am different. She has thrown that up in my face.
As stated earlier, I was in a much better place before last week.
Both 40 T-22 M-18 S13 S11
Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13 EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13 EA #2-9/13/13
