I should mention that I did speak with her today. She called to schedule a meet up time for her to come to the house. She was much friendlier than usual so maybe the day apart did us a bit of good.
She asked if I could help her with a few heavy items and I cheerfully agreed. She asked if I wanted to discuss other things and I said "now"? She said she couldn't now because she had a little work to finish up but later. I agreed to later right away - which is a huge 180 for me. Typically I would be so anxious to know something that i would pressure her to go into another office and talk, or call me when she gets in her car to come home.
She called back 5 minutes later but I was in a meeting with my boss so didn't get the call. When I did get back to my desk she had sent a text that read 'finished what I had to do and had a few minutes to talk.' I replied about an hour later with 'let just talk later.'
Me:38 W:39 No Children BD: 5/13 EA/PA Confirmed: 7/13 W Moved out 12/13