Just so we're clear, I'm not trying to punish you. But the more we talk about this, the more it seems to me that you are dealing with a lot of stuff that is outside of my comfort zone.
I'm not a counselor, a lawyer, or a priest; I'm a guy who did a lot of research and talked to people of my own about what I was going through when my wife dropped the bomb on me, and am just trying to pass on a little of what I've figured out.
You wouldn't want me fixing your car or performing heart surgery on you, so I don't think you want me fixing your marriage for you either.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
