The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
By the way Jack, I was about your son's age when I (unmarried) found out that I was going to be a father and look how amazing I turned out??????
Tad
Currently: M 57 XW 58 Sons 39,34,32,30
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
I've been wondering where you've been, Jack. Thank you so much for giving us an update. I wish you and your family all the best, and look forward to reading more of your words of wisdom.
Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
Don’t give up. If they are worth it, don't give up on them, and one day they won't give up on you.
You can do this.
^^^I too really love this, especially coming from someone who walked the walk. It will definitely help me to stand for our marriage for at least another week.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
Ditto to everything above Jack. Thank you for sharing with us. It's definitely a story that gives us all hope. I remember reading some if your old posts when I was lurking around here months ago and thinking you were the man. I now know this without a doubt.
Both 40 T-22 M-18 S13 S11
Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13 EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13 EA #2-9/13/13
Dear Jack, all I can say is we all here have been given an early Christmas present in the form of your return! And I think I can say we all are eager to support you in whatever way we can. After all, you have given so much to so many over the years. As a newbie, I have often read some of your older posts and wondered where this wise, magical man went! I am so sorry to hear about your past year and wish you nothing but a healthy recovery! Your story is incredible and now I want to go back into your *archives* to learn more about your journey through all this.
Thanks for coming back and letting us know where you been! Look forward to more updates. Take it slow and easy . . .
Me 59 H47 M12 T22 No kids BD&S Apr 2,2013 - ILYBINILWY Filed 2/12/14 OW 11/13 The Universe always strikes you at your weakest point because that’s what most needs strengthening." – Joseph Campbell
