RT- yes. We had discussed this particular gift for D, it was one of two things she wanted. I no longer give unsolicited advice (hardly...ever...practicing stfu and mostly succeeding...like mostly dead lol)

He is pretty good with the whole shopping thing....

Busting- yes he wants a Hallmark Christmas lol ! Last year was separate presents with him two and a half hours late to pick up kids, then returning them after two hours at SILs (because, you know, kids were bored). That was the Christmas he lent MG his car so she could go visit her family. It was the Christmas where I thanked him for telling the truth instead of lying and that it meant a lot.
But I had to run out the tears and pain first smile