What I would say now is I thought the drinking was fun. It seemed to me we were stuck in a rut and all we did was work, chores, kids, dogs, repeat. I kept tell my W that we need to go have some fun, but she couldn't stand a dirty house, laundry, etc etc. She was truly obsessed with these things. So I would drink and still help with all those things every day/night. It made them more fun/tolerable to do every single day.
Me: 39 W: 33 M: 9 years T: 10 years S7 S10 BD 10/19/13 W Filed 11/25/13 EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA) WAW moved out 3/15/14
