One other thing...in some ways, I have thought one of the "easier" aspects to her moving out would be no "joint decisions", I wouldn't have to "work around" her. I could get MY systems in place (I am a "systems" guy, she is umm..."free form", yeah, that's it, free form...).
I'm not sure that would be easier with the contrasting styles either....
That would prolly throw "co-parenting" out the window...
More like a parallel parenting...(which BTW SUUUUCCCKKKS)
You doing her thing, and you doing your thing...two houses, two sets of rules...