Just make sure that you aren't watching too closely.
Consistent actions over time is what you are striving for. And those actions should be matching the new you....
Watching her too closely, will burn your retinas...
No doubt. I see that I am still watching and looking to see what she is doing. I can tell myself that is doesn't matter and I will be fine either way, but I'm not there yet.
The only reason that I asked, was that I want you to be careful that you don't let HER words and actions, define YOUR words and actions....
You are going to create friction, and there will be rug burns along the way....
And she WILL let you pour salt onto those wounds....
You have to be you, no matter what...
Your values, and your convictions...
And like I said before, all of this is pretty new to you too, so just spend way more time watching you, than you do her...
