One other thing...in some ways, I have thought one of the "easier" aspects to her moving out would be no "joint decisions", I wouldn't have to "work around" her. I could get MY systems in place (I am a "systems" guy, she is umm..."free form", yeah, that's it, free form...).
But you know, as attractive as that sounds, and easier, the down sides would be that if she wanted to reconcile, then there would be a much larger adjustment to living together again I would think. And, it would be easier...easier doesn't mean better. Less challenge to be the best me, push myself through things and grow more. Know what I mean?
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
