Also the quicker you let go.... the less damage is done by the LBS.... you can't control the damage the MLC does.. I found the closer I was to the situation the more damage I was doing... contacting her first... saying stupid things .. begging.. chasing.. once I was able to stop doing it I felt so much better about myself and my situation. Learning patience is very hard to do.. but it an essential part in all of this.. and in life.
I am very Thankful for this board.. it has changed my life.. there is no way I would be as far long as I am without it. All the answers you need are right here... do the work and look for them.
M-39 W-41 T-9yrs BD-Dec 2012 “regardless of your choices and the fact that they may have caused me to experience painful emotions, I still love you because I recognize the purpose of our journey.”
