on the edge pt 2

[labug]

her feelings for him are stronger than her feelings for me. How do you turn that around?

You don't. You can't. You can only continue to work on the things you know you need to work on and when she looks at you she will see a different man.

There are no guarantees.

The phrase Let go, let god, got me through a lot of wrestling with those thoughts.

It almost seems like he has to mess up in order for her to come back to me. Is she really still conflicted/confused?

This is mind-reading. You don't know what their R is like. But there is one thing that's pretty certain. There could be 100s of things that happen that would cause her to reconsider, but if she looks at you and sees sad, angry, depressed, it won't be attractive.

Create a new life, do interesting things you've always wanted to do. Sometimes you have to force yourself, that's OK.