My H used to text and text after I went upstairs to bed. Now he barely texts at all, even when I'm not in the room. Yes, I spy. I see for your W that it might be a sort of addiction, she gets a rush from texting people. That's not uncommon actually.
I understand about not being able to get out and run. It's been -12 here and you can't even breathe normally outside! Maybe you could do 100 situps or pushups. That can be done inside. I also found a Rec Center that has classes that I can pay as I go. That helps. Just some thoughts.
It is hard when you go to functions and they act like everything is normal. It does feel kind of fake, but their whole world is fake right now, so I can't imagine the stress on the brain on that one. My H even asked us to leave a function all together even though we drove separately. I remember thinking what? like we are together? It was a facade to make his family think otherwise. Sigh, it's tough stuff JF.
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I see for your W that it might be a sort of addiction, she gets a rush from texting people. That's not uncommon actually.
