I understand you have to do what's best for you regarding posting here and social media. I think that's what helped me to detach the most, not seeing or hearing about her escapades. So now, whenever I get an email, I get anxious.
I like knowing that if anything, I have a safe place to come post ideas, with people that will give it to me straight on how crazy or unreasonable I'm being. They and you have also proven to be some of my biggest cheerleaders during this time as well. Please use as a resource and don't feel you have to go it alone.
As for the night hike, it wasn't creepy or anything. There were about 20 people that showed up. We all ended up in random groups. I bet being alone at night out there would make you scared, but with that many people it definitely wasn't bad.
Check in when/if you need to. I hope all is well with you, and your job. Sounds like you do some good work with the homeless, I hope you know that's a very positive thing.
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14