Okay, quick post, and thoughts.

Just the facts.

I texted H and said that I asked S17 to check out a particular website on a gift for D14. S is knowledgeable in this gift area.

I asked if H would like to get her that (a biggie because it's one of two things she has asked for)

I mentioned that I got D clothes, but also explained to H that I said to D that there wouldn't be much under the tree from me, but we would have an awesome Christmas.

H said "That sounds great but let's work together in this and ensure that the kids have a wonderful Christmas. No need to say (gifts) from me or from Dad."


I'll post how I responded later wink