Okay, if you have the information that the other woman is jealous...LUCKY YOU! Now, the more you discuss her with your H. the more power she has. TAKE IT BACK! Use this tid bit of info. and bust on!
By constantly bringing her up , in his eyes you are harping. Let her be the harpy! Use the home court advantage. If she is already sharing this with him, this is goooood. Remember, we are the spouses a fool would want to leave.
As for the parenting situation...he is into his pleasure, not into issues. You are going to need to step up to the plate and be both for a bit.
Remember the mantra...does this bring us closer or push us apart.
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Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay