I can understand where you are coming from with this It's a mental battle between your concious and common sense. We can't help but look at the "what ifs", but this is mind reading and my IC tells me that we shouldn't do this. I agree with GALbaby that she should feel what it's like to be financially independent now. That's sort of like what I was trying to say earlier. Like I said though, I completely understand where you're coming from. You could ask your W if she will have the bills go to her address and then she has to get in touch when the bills are due. At least that will stop you wondering whether or not to change it to your new address and she will have to ask you for the money instead of just relying on it. Just a thought
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!