Wife says she wants to leave

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Oh and I also told wife that she should make sure I am never within arms reach of OM, because I would...yep you gessed it.. bury him alive.

She said of course not. He wouldn't want to fight you..

Your damn skippy. Stand firm on these things. Some may say its controlling or childish or threats etc. But I think its the single best way to show strength and bravery. ..

You are essentially telling her that she may be a grown woman who makes her own decisions as poor as they are, but you will not allow her to make THIS poor decision.

Don't worry about a fight over it. I have yet to see one WAW in affaur fog who wants to deal with her young kids. You would probably be doing her a favor. Some like to force or suggest their spouse take the kids half the time just so they can throw a wrench in the cheating couples plans. How romantic is an affair couple with a three year old that wants her daddy?

But my thing is I don't care. My daughter is not a game piece to be played with. Daughters without a strong father grow up to be their mom..

Think about this. My father in law was cheated on and left for her affair partner. And he was weak and in my wifes words he cried himself to sleep for months. He allowed his wife to take his daughter with her even though my wife wanted to stay with her dad...

And history is repeating itself...

Only my wife had the decency to tell me what wad happening before the EA turned into a PA. I later confirmed this with some snooping..and that I was not going to be a weak father. My daughter will NOT learn this to be acceptable behavior!!

Be strong. Girls with weak fathers grown up to be their mom. Keep reminding yourself of this, it will help you do the right thing.