Originally Posted By: SM34
Cc I am so sorry it has come to this. We are here for you man. If you need to vent, vent here. We know how you feel.

Just a few things I'd like to point out...

The two of them being in love, that's standard issue. They all say that. They believe they are soul mates (gag me).

If there is a part of you that still wants to see if it might work down the road, then bear that in mind. If you are done, then know that you are doing what you feel you need to do for yourself. She made her decision, and now you are making yours. She will try to twist it around that you are the one breaking it up...don't fall for that. This is a consequence of her decision.

If you think that you may have an interest in fixing it later, should she have an epiphany, then be careful what you do now. You have told her to get out of the house etc...don't back down on that or you will be viewed as weak.

I don't have the best wording for what I'm trying to say so maybe one of the others like accuray can better convey my message.

Take care of yourself and your daughter. Put your daughters needs ahead of everything else! I have a three year old daughter too so I know the emotions involved with that.

Do what's best for her right now. No fighting infront of her. It really is bad for her emotional health.

Thinking of you. ..keep us posted.


Def agree with all of this. Leave it right there. Don't go back on it... Or you will certainly regret ever bringing it up. Stay strong, pray and pray some more...


ME: 35
W: 34
M 2 years, together 6
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