Wife says she wants to leave

[dingo]

Sorry about this bro. I know its hard. I am in the same position and it [censored] big time. Are you sure you are done? I thought I would be if I discovered that there was PA but the shock wore off and the reality that I still loved her and could forgive her came back.

Planning their life together is part of the fantasy. "Come live your life with me and all of our problems will be over." Do you really think that your W is capable of being in a successful relationship with all of the emotional baggage she has right now? I know that my W isn't.

Hang in there bro. Let things lie for a few days and then see where you are. I have found that encouraging other people on their situation is a great way to keep my mind off of mine. Keep posting dude!!