This stuff takes time, grasshopper! You need to corral the impatience. There are 20 other guys(I ran out of fingers and toes) on this board right now that wish their sitches were at where yours is.
Look at the positives here from today... She said something about her mood. She called to you at the mall when she could have easily not have... She emailed you later? C'mon, grasshopper... That is some positive stuff!
Go get some ice cream. It works. Honest.
“Things turn out best for the people who make the best out of the way things turn out” ― Art Linkletter