Hang in there TL. Thinking the impact on their children will be different helps with the guilt over what they're doing. We all know the wounds will be the same.
M - 42 W- 37 S's - 9,6 M-12 T-14 FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011 ILYBNILWY - march '12 FIL - died jan '13 W Moved out week later