NeedingMore, thank you for your kind words. It's been a stressful week and your nice comments really cheered me up.
Confluences, thanks for checking in, I was wondering how u were holding up. I'm glad u went ahead with your Thanksgiving plans. I will also be interested to hear what comes of the profile viewing. On the positive at least you know she's not seriously seeing anyone else right now if she's got a profile up. Are you in a position where you could goof around with her a bit on the site? Maybe send a funny message through match, something like "awe shucks, you didn't have to go through all the hassle of signing up for match just to view shirtless pictures of me. I would have sent them over if you had just asked.. Just kidding ". Maybe tease her a bit in a light hearted manner.
BD: Aug 2012 Separated since May 2013 S born Aug 2013 Aug 2013 H agrees to consider 'baby steps toward working things out' H is/was actively seeing someone?