Wife says she wants to leave

[bluesgal]

cc- I've just went through your story today. Do NOT confront her on what you've found. Been there. Done that. Regretted it.

Please do some deep breathing and regroup. Your mind is probably racing at this point. Everything is doom and gloom.

Our spouses have very mixed emotions right now. As groovshadow said, they are in crisis.

I think you've suspected this all along in the back of your mind and you were still managing to do all the great DB you've done. Your best bet is to keep it up. You've seen the reactions your W has had to your DB. No doubt she's noticed the changes in you. Don't scream/yell/accuse because it will only set you back from your ultimate goal.

Vent to us!! Not to her!!