Look what the cat dragged in! (TL)

[tigerlily78]

But seriously we don't want them the way they are right now. If this is what my H chooses to be then I may have to move on when I see he won't or can't do that. That is why we must wait, be mz congeniality and wait...and oh, wait some more.

You are right Pud. The current version is a total wreck. That is not the guy I want to be with. I have to be able to wait out the metamorphosis, at least until such time as it becomes clear he isn't going to transform on a timescale I can accept.

Ms. Congeniality...The funny thing is that to other people I already AM that person. Right now my H just doesn't bring it out in me. It's all that other yucky stuff.