Ugh. Sorry, Julie. It really is hard on kids when Dad doesn't show up. And though you are dealing with your own grief/anger/confusion, I know you will make it awesome for your S. This is one of those times I wish we *could* control what others do.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14