Me 13 months on, affair finally confirmed.

[TryingToDo180]

ok that makes sense now regarding the tax Pity it's in joint names though. Will you be using the car at all? If not then perhaps you could sign it over to your W and then you won't have the problem of paying for it or whether or not to change the address on it. You say that one of your 180s is to buy things for others not yourself, well by signing the car over to your W is a huuuuge 180
That's all we can do at the mo is give them our unconditional love. Good for you standing for your marriage I intend to stand for mine as long as I can stand I'm not going out to look for someone else as I'm not interested in anyone else but my H. The thought of starting a new relationship terrifies me anyway.
Give God all your worries, stresses and anything else that's making you anxious. You'll feel a lot better if you do that, I know I do Just try not to take it back off God, that's the hard part, lol.
If you get a chance to read a book, I've started one called "broken heart on hold" by Linda Rooks. It is for women, but men can read it as well. It's a good read and not too heavy