What if the other person has miles and miles and miles to go and has shown little to no action to give you an indication they will come to a point that they will want to make the effort?
That is for me to determine, like it is for you.
I don't know yet what will come out of the oven. I haven't seen anything "solid" yet that is intolerable, a deal breaker.
At the moment, I see progress, slow as it seems. I see effort.
That is enough, at this moment.
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
