Hi, I am a 50 year old husband whose wife on sept 11 told him that we are not compatiably and loves me but doesnt want to live with me any more. we've been married for 22 years and have 3 children 15,19 and 21. I've done all the wrong things since that day. Now im at the desperation part. Told her to get it done.... and oh boy did she. The filing for divorce was done on the 22 of november and i just got informed on the 2 of December. Called her with the thanks of all the 33 restrianing order items. She said its just the normal doc paper stuff they file. How ever this morning i talked to her and she said she'd go to counseling with me. Lost and confused... Is this a tactic on her part or is it sincerely an attempt. The lies havent stopped throught the days since... I'm not sure what to think or do... Just go with it and hope for the best or play hard to get still?
